Love for love

                        Love for love

It is often seen that people love to love.They love to love beautiful ladies,they love to love handsome smart men.They start a partnership by repeating "I LOVE YOU" from time to time and then after going a few steps suddenly they discover that their relationship has lost all the love of it.You can ask, "Why?Does love change with time?" Excuse me.I don't feel so.I just feel they got infatuated to the other  maybe due to their physical wealth but never tried to feel the mind of the other.They never loved at all.Because one cannot think and fall in love.Love just happens.And when love truly happens, it happens during those moments of internal silence when nobody has to speak for their love.One heart just feel the love of the other because it is an experience of the self in another heart.When this happens there can be no mind that filters it out or dilutes it down into meaningless garbage which happens to most love relationships. So love is not all about expressions - it is to feel the inexpressible in the heart .I believe - love is all about empowering our ego which gets satisfied by controlling others.If we wish to allow true love to our heart we will have to do this first - eradicate the wish to conquer other's hearts and control them for satisfying our ego.If we can do this little thing our life will be full of love.
                                  Tarashis Gangopadhyay

Dont hate the mistakes of others.

 Dont hate the mistakes of others.

We human beings are the bundle of mistakes.We are used to do this mistakes so often.And the strange fact is - we also love ourselves in spite of these mistakes.So why do we want to see others devoid of flaws?Won't they have the right to commit mistakes?Or do we believe that mistakes are our personal property?My suggestion is - never hate human beings for committing the mistakes.Instead stay by their side.Try to help them with love and blessings so that they can get rid of their mistakes.That's what we should do.We should take their mistakes as our chance to help them to get rid of this.
                                     Tarashis Gangopadhyay

Admire them..

              Admire them..

There are two types of people in our lives whom we need to admire.We should admire them for the love and kindness they shower upon us without any interest of their own.The 1st group find out the time for us in their busy schedule.We need to respect them and be grateful for their kindness.But the 2nd group is very rare - they never look at their own schedule when we need them.Whatever the position may be, whatever the time,they remain close to our heart in all respects.So they should be loved from the bottom of their heart.

How can I be happy

       How can I be happy
     One of my reader today asked me,"How can I be happy?".
     I told her," Just draw yourself away from the rat-race to get something more.Craving for more will never make you happy.If you want more,you will have more but your mind will again crave for more.So there is no satisfaction in "more".So just try to acquire the necessities of life and then try to make yourself satisfied.That is the essence of happiness.To be happy you must appreciate what you already have. Just do this simple thing and you will be happy for sure."
-Tarashis Gangopadhyay

Leave "লাভ" ,live " LOVE "

To be happy in life concentrate in L - Leave "লাভ" ,live " LOVE ". Forsake the path which craves towards material profit and take the path of love.You will have to leave matreial profit i.e "লাভ" in Bengali in some day or other,but Love will take you to the ultimate goal.